Selamat siang, pemirsaaahhhh~ 💃🏻⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Beberapa hari lalu bertemu teman baru rasa lama. Singkat cerita percakapan mengenai teman daging. Teman opportunist. ⁣⁣⁣Nowadays people always saying avoiding toxic person as your friend. Be careful on who you friend with. If they don’t giving you a good impact, stay away. But, my deeply question is.. are you being selective or opportunist? Because I only see slightly difference in-between of two. I know in the name of networking. But doesn’t mean it change you to be opportunist right?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Let’s re-boot. Let say every time you meet new people; it must be fun, exciting, and full of positive energy. Then you found out s/he might be nothing. Not giving you a good network, they less charm for you, or not giving any BENEFIT for you. Then you realise you need to stay away from this people. You become meany, cold, and try to get rid of them from your life. Treating them badly. ⁣⁣Ｔｈｅ ｐｒｏｂｌｅｍ ｉｓ ＹＯＵ．．．⁣⁣You expecting something from others on every beginning. Even they are just have a nice personality, not giving a shit about your social status/fame. Then you changed. You just want to be a friend with someone who able to give you more work, more fame, more class or same level with you. ⁣⁣⁣I always remember what my mom told me, be a friend with anybody. Don’t classified people from their social status. Just like a kid. They pure. They smile to anybody without negative thoughts or hidden agenda when meet new people. Kids not worry if they are pretty, handsome, rich, influencers or not, whoever they are. Making friends! But yes, selecting your inner circle nicely. And always treating people like the way you want to be treated. Be genuine. That’s all matters.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Thank you for this lesson I summarize from our short conversation @cindylevina ❤️⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣This post also I dedicated to my best @barbiegracia who happens in my life. To be the most patience, loyal, accepting me ups and downs. Thank you for being there like a family. And on ur wise age, I’m hoping a good things in your life. And be toughen up when the storm comes. 🤗⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Kasihilah sesamamu manusia seperti dirimu sendiri!” —Galatia 5:14⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ #nona_hitampahit